One of the member asked where she can find a good husband material. She went on to say that she had just gotten out from a failed relationship and now, she is going to find “the one.” I feel remorse for her because I can sense an urgency on her search. She has the right to look for an answer because after all, it is her future and it is her life. I believe that she must be so desperate to seek help from strangers.
I am not an expert about life, but I had experiences that can somehow help her and hopefully, will help some of our single readers. To be honest, I really believe that who you choose to marry, or who you choose to be your partner can make or break your happiness. Imagine living with a man/woman who is self centered and selfish . These spell – miserable life.
IN THE HARDWARE STORE
I did not go to hardware store to test this advice, but I have a friend who met her husband in a hardware store. The men just approached her, they dated for a few months and they have been happily married for four years now.
This is where I met my husband. I joined a church group for young professionals and I am now married for 15 years. We have the same faith and beliefs. Although my marriage is not perfect, we both believe that divorce is not an option. We also have the same belief on how to raise our kids and how to spend and save our money.
COLLEGES OR UNIVERSITIES
Usually men who goes to college are mostly responsible and ambitious. So, there is a big chance that you can meet a man who has the same commonality as you.
These are just few advice from the forum members but as for me, I really think that she should get a piece of paper and a pen then write down what is the kind of man she is looking for. She should jot down and honestly look deep inside her what she wants for a husband, and what are the things that are important to her in a marriage. By doing so, she will clearly see her standards in a man. She should be very specific on what is the extent of provision or lifestyle she wants. Or what kind of emotional needs she has that this man need to give to her. And most, she should be clear that the man shares the same belief as her.
Armed with this notes, she should go to places where these type of men revolve. For sure, she cannot find the “one” right away, so she needs to spend “this waiting time ” developing herself into a woman that deserves that noble man she is looking for. And, she should never ever lower her standards.
How about you? Where did you find you man/husband?
GROUND TURKEY MEATBALLS
1 1/2 lb ground turkey
1 medium size carrots around 1/4 cup ( chopped)
2 stems celery ( chopped)
2 tablespoon cilantro leaves (chopped)
1 small size onion ( chopped ) this can be 1/8 cup when chopped
1 tablespoon corn starch
1/4 teaspoon ground pepper
1/2 teaspoon or more salt
1/8 cup Hoisin Sauce
1/8 cup ketchup
- Pre heat oven at 350 F
- Chopped the celery, cilantro, and carrots in an electric chopper.Place it in a large bowl
- Add the ground turkey meat in the celery mixture.
- Add in egg, salt, onion and cornstarch.
- Mix and form into a ball. Place in a baking pan line with wire or just place directly in the baking sheet pan
- Bake for 20 minutes, until cook through. You can tell because it will brown on the sides. As shown on the above photo or, you can test one meatball and see if it is cooked through.
- For the sauce:
- Mix Hoisin sauce and ketchup in a sauce pan. Heat in a low heat until simmering. Gently add the meatballs. Coat the meatballs with the sauce. Serve hot.